{"id":15389,"date":"2026-09-30T12:32:25","date_gmt":"2026-09-30T12:32:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/happytummy.aashirvaad.com\/en\/?p=15389"},"modified":"2026-09-30T12:33:14","modified_gmt":"2026-09-30T12:33:14","slug":"why-same-food-affects-everyone-differently","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/happytummy.aashirvaad.com\/en\/healthy-eating\/why-same-food-affects-everyone-differently\/","title":{"rendered":"One Kitchen, Different Guts: Why the Same Meal Affects Everyone Differently"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"ez-toc-container\" class=\"ez-toc-v2_0_85 counter-hierarchy ez-toc-counter ez-toc-custom ez-toc-container-direction\">\n<p class=\"ez-toc-title\" style=\"cursor:inherit\">Table of Contents<\/p>\n<label for=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-item-6abd154367704\" class=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-label\"><span class=\"ez-toc-cssicon\"><span class=\"eztoc-hide\" style=\"display:none;\">Toggle<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-icon-toggle-span\"><svg style=\"fill: 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class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-1\" href=\"https:\/\/happytummy.aashirvaad.com\/en\/healthy-eating\/why-same-food-affects-everyone-differently\/#Why_does_the_same_food_affect_people_differently\" >Why does the same food affect people differently?<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-2\" href=\"https:\/\/happytummy.aashirvaad.com\/en\/healthy-eating\/why-same-food-affects-everyone-differently\/#How_you_eat_matters_as_much_as_what_you_eat\" >How you eat matters as much as what you eat<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-3\" href=\"https:\/\/happytummy.aashirvaad.com\/en\/healthy-eating\/why-same-food-affects-everyone-differently\/#Age_and_activity_change_what_each_plate_needs\" >Age and activity change what each plate needs<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-4\" href=\"https:\/\/happytummy.aashirvaad.com\/en\/healthy-eating\/why-same-food-affects-everyone-differently\/#Your_day_shapes_how_dinner_feels\" >Your day shapes how dinner feels<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-5\" href=\"https:\/\/happytummy.aashirvaad.com\/en\/healthy-eating\/why-same-food-affects-everyone-differently\/#Food_intolerances_when_one_ingredient_is_the_difference\" >Food intolerances: when one ingredient is the difference<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-6\" href=\"https:\/\/happytummy.aashirvaad.com\/en\/healthy-eating\/why-same-food-affects-everyone-differently\/#What_role_does_the_gut_microbiome_play\" >What role does the gut microbiome play?<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-7\" href=\"https:\/\/happytummy.aashirvaad.com\/en\/healthy-eating\/why-same-food-affects-everyone-differently\/#Why_copying_someone_elses_diet_rarely_works\" >Why copying someone else\u2019s diet rarely works<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-8\" href=\"https:\/\/happytummy.aashirvaad.com\/en\/healthy-eating\/why-same-food-affects-everyone-differently\/#One_kitchen_doesnt_mean_one_plate\" >One kitchen doesn\u2019t mean one plate<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-9\" href=\"https:\/\/happytummy.aashirvaad.com\/en\/healthy-eating\/why-same-food-affects-everyone-differently\/#Stop_comparing_stomachs\" >Stop comparing stomachs<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-10\" href=\"https:\/\/happytummy.aashirvaad.com\/en\/healthy-eating\/why-same-food-affects-everyone-differently\/#Scan_the_family_plate\" >Scan the family plate<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-11\" href=\"https:\/\/happytummy.aashirvaad.com\/en\/healthy-eating\/why-same-food-affects-everyone-differently\/#Ask_Happy_Tummy_GPT\" >Ask Happy Tummy GPT<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-12\" href=\"https:\/\/happytummy.aashirvaad.com\/en\/healthy-eating\/why-same-food-affects-everyone-differently\/#When_%E2%80%9Cdifferent_guts%E2%80%9D_isnt_the_whole_story\" >When \u201cdifferent guts\u201d isn\u2019t the whole story<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-13\" href=\"https:\/\/happytummy.aashirvaad.com\/en\/healthy-eating\/why-same-food-affects-everyone-differently\/#The_Bottom_Line\" >The Bottom Line<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-14\" href=\"https:\/\/happytummy.aashirvaad.com\/en\/healthy-eating\/why-same-food-affects-everyone-differently\/#Sources\" >Sources<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-15\" href=\"https:\/\/happytummy.aashirvaad.com\/en\/healthy-eating\/why-same-food-affects-everyone-differently\/#Disclaimer\" >Disclaimer<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/nav><\/div>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The same meal can feel different to different people because digestion depends on much more than the food itself. How much you ate, how hungry you were, how quickly you ate, your age and activity level, your sleep and stress, any medicines you take, food intolerances such as lactose intolerance, and how sensitive your gut is all shape how a meal sits. Your gut bacteria may play a part too, although scientists are still working out how much. That\u2019s why one family can share a lunch and come away with four different verdicts, and why copying someone else\u2019s diet rarely works.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Picture Sunday lunch. Everyone sits around the table: dal, sabzi, rice, rotis, fish curry and salad. An hour later, the family starts comparing notes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Your father feels perfectly fine. Your sister complains of bloating. Your son is already asking for a snack. Your grandmother says the meal was too heavy. You all ate from the same kitchen, so why is everyone\u2019s stomach telling a different story?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cIf we\u2019re eating the same food, shouldn\u2019t we all digest it the same way?\u201d Not necessarily. The food may be the same. The people eating it aren\u2019t.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-table\"><table class=\"has-fixed-layout\"><tbody><tr><td><strong>What is a food intolerance?<\/strong> <br><br>A food intolerance means <a href=\"https:\/\/www.nhs.uk\/conditions\/food-intolerance\/\">you have difficulty digesting certain foods<\/a> or ingredients, which can cause symptoms such as bloating, gas or diarrhoea. It isn\u2019t usually serious, and it\u2019s different from a food allergy, which involves the immune system and can cause reactions such as swelling, wheezing or itchy skin.<\/td><\/tr><\/tbody><\/table><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Why_does_the_same_food_affect_people_differently\"><\/span><strong>Why does the same food affect people differently?<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">We often talk about \u201cgood\u201d and \u201cbad\u201d foods as though they affect everyone in exactly the same way. Real life isn\u2019t that simple. Each of us brings something different to the table: age, activity level, appetite, routine, stress, sleep, and sometimes a health condition or a medicine that affects digestion.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Digestive symptoms usually reflect a combination of these things: the food, the portion, how it was eaten, the day that came before it, and the person\u2019s own sensitivity. That\u2019s why copying another person\u2019s eating habits doesn\u2019t always work.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"How_you_eat_matters_as_much_as_what_you_eat\"><\/span><strong>How you eat matters as much as what you eat<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Imagine four people eating the same lunch. One ate breakfast and came to the table comfortably hungry. Another skipped breakfast and was starving. A third rushed through lunch in ten minutes. The fourth ate slowly while chatting.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Same menu, completely different eating experience. Eating fast and arriving ravenous both make it easier to overeat, and eating quickly can add to gas and bloating. Smaller portions and <a href=\"https:\/\/happytummy.aashirvaad.com\/en\/healthy-eating\/the-benefits-of-mindful-eating-for-your-gut-brain-connection\/\">slower, more mindful eating<\/a> can ease that heavy feeling, although they don\u2019t guarantee comfort for everyone.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Individual triggers vary too. Spicy or fatty dishes, like that fish curry, are common triggers for acidity, but not everyone reacts to them. One person\u2019s favourite dish can be another person\u2019s reason to reach for an antacid. If acidity after meals is a regular thing for you, here are <a href=\"https:\/\/happytummy.aashirvaad.com\/en\/healthy-eating\/what-is-acid-reflux-and-ways-to-prevent\/\">ways to help prevent acid reflux<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Age_and_activity_change_what_each_plate_needs\"><\/span><strong>Age and activity change what each plate needs<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Think about how varied one family can be: a school-going child, a working professional, parents juggling busy schedules, grandparents. They have different energy needs, appetites and daily routines.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A growing teenager who plays football every evening may need more food, or more snacks, than a less active adult. Some older adults prefer smaller, softer or more frequent meals because of appetite, teeth, swallowing or digestive comfort, although their nutritional needs shouldn\u2019t be assumed from age alone. That\u2019s perfectly normal. A family meal doesn\u2019t have to mean identical plates.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Your_day_shapes_how_dinner_feels\"><\/span><strong>Your day shapes how dinner feels<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Say everyone eats the same dinner. Now compare what happened earlier in the day. One person walked a lot, drank enough water and slept well. Another sat at a desk all day, forgot to drink water and slept five hours. Even before dinner begins, those two digestive systems are starting from different places.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Regular movement, even a short <a href=\"https:\/\/happytummy.aashirvaad.com\/en\/fitness-wellbeing\/why-post-meal-walks-help-your-digestion\/\">walk after meals<\/a>, helps move gas along and keeps bowels regular, while a day of sitting, skipped water and poor sleep can leave digestion feeling sluggish. That\u2019s why it\u2019s often more useful to compare routines than recipes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Food_intolerances_when_one_ingredient_is_the_difference\"><\/span><strong>Food intolerances: when one ingredient is the difference<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sometimes the difference really is one ingredient. Lactose intolerance is a good example. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.niddk.nih.gov\/health-information\/digestive-diseases\/lactose-intolerance\/definition-facts\">Lactose malabsorption is common worldwide<\/a>, and in Asia most people have it to some degree, although many can still manage some lactose without symptoms. So the family member who feels bloated after a big glass of milk may be fine with smaller amounts of dairy, while another has no trouble at all.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">If you suspect a particular food is causing problems, a food and symptom diary can help you spot a pattern. But <a href=\"https:\/\/www.nhs.uk\/conditions\/food-intolerance\/\">don\u2019t cut foods out without advice<\/a> from a doctor or dietitian, especially for children, who need a wide range of foods to grow.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"What_role_does_the_gut_microbiome_play\"><\/span><strong>What role does the gut microbiome play?<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Inside your digestive system lives a vast community of microorganisms known as the gut microbiome. <a href=\"https:\/\/nutritionsource.hsph.harvard.edu\/microbiome\/\">No two people have exactly the same mix<\/a>: it\u2019s shaped by genes, early life, diet, environment and medicines. Different people\u2019s microbiomes vary in make-up, even though many carry out overlapping jobs in digestion.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The microbiome may be one reason people process the same foods differently. But scientists are still in the early stages of understanding how much it explains in everyday symptoms, so it\u2019s only one part of a much bigger picture, and not something you can read from how your stomach feels after lunch.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Why_copying_someone_elses_diet_rarely_works\"><\/span><strong>Why copying someone else\u2019s diet rarely works<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">We\u2019ve all heard these conversations. \u201cMy friend stopped eating wheat and all his bloating disappeared.\u201d \u201cMy cousin eats only fruit for breakfast.\u201d \u201cMy colleague says dairy is bad for everyone.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Maybe those changes suited them, or maybe they didn\u2019t. Either way, they don\u2019t automatically apply to you. And if you think wheat genuinely disagrees with you, see a doctor before cutting it out: testing for coeliac disease is only accurate <a href=\"https:\/\/www.nhs.uk\/conditions\/coeliac-disease\/diagnosis\/\">while gluten is still in your diet<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The best eating pattern is the one that supports your health, your preferences and your life, not the one that\u2019s trending on social media.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"One_kitchen_doesnt_mean_one_plate\"><\/span><strong>One kitchen doesn\u2019t mean one plate<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Many families already do this without realising it. The meal is shared; the plates are different. Someone takes an extra serving of dal, someone skips the rice. A child gets more curd. An older adult prefers softer vegetables. That isn\u2019t special treatment. It\u2019s simply adapting one meal to different people.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Instead of cooking four separate dinners, build one balanced meal that everyone can adjust. A practical family meal often includes:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>a whole grain, such as whole wheat rotis, millets or brown rice, or another staple such as white rice alongside plenty of dal and sabzi<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>plenty of vegetables<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>a protein, such as dal, rajma, chana, paneer, eggs, fish or chicken<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>fruit at some point in the day<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>water to drink through the day<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The beauty of a balanced meal is that everyone can shape their own plate without the kitchen producing entirely different menus.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Stop_comparing_stomachs\"><\/span><strong>Stop comparing stomachs<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Comparison is one of the easiest traps to fall into. \u201cHe eats twice as much as I do and never gets bloated.\u201d \u201cShe drinks tea all day and feels fine.\u201d \u201cMy child refuses vegetables but has no tummy problems.\u201d Comparisons rarely help. Your digestion isn\u2019t competing with anyone else\u2019s.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">What matters is noticing your own patterns. If you feel heavy after very large dinners, that\u2019s useful information. If your partner feels perfectly comfortable after the same meal, it doesn\u2019t mean your symptoms aren\u2019t real. And if you\u2019re not sure whether that tight, full feeling is bloating or something else, here\u2019s how to tell <a href=\"https:\/\/happytummy.aashirvaad.com\/en\/dietary-tips\/bloated-stomach-vs-weight-gain\/\">a bloated stomach from weight gain<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Digestive health is shaped by patterns over weeks and months, not by one perfect lunch: regular meals, enough vegetables and whole grains, water, movement, sleep and managing stress where you can. These habits support general health for most people, even if everyone\u2019s digestion responds a little differently, though anyone with a medical condition may need personalised advice.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Scan_the_family_plate\"><\/span><strong>Scan the family plate<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Instead of asking whether everyone is eating exactly the same amount, ask whether each plate is balanced for the person eating it. For each family member, check:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Is there a grain, ideally a whole grain?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Is there at least one vegetable?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Is there a source of protein?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Is the portion right for that person\u2019s age, appetite and activity level?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Does anyone regularly feel bloated, heavy or acidic after meals?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Have we adjusted meals for preferences, allergies and medical needs without unnecessarily restricting everyone else?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A family meal doesn\u2019t have to be identical to be healthy; it simply has to give everyone a good starting point. To see how your own day adds up on fibre, add your meals to <a href=\"https:\/\/happytummy.aashirvaad.com\/my-meal-plan\">My Meal Plan<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Ask_Happy_Tummy_GPT\"><\/span>Ask Happy Tummy GPT<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"https:\/\/happytummy.aashirvaad.com\/happy-tummy-gpt\">Happy Tummy GPT<\/a> can suggest ways to adapt one family meal for different needs. It can\u2019t diagnose why someone has symptoms, so take persistent ones to a doctor. Try this prompt: <em>\u201cHere\u2019s what my family usually eats for lunch and dinner. We all eat the same meals, but different people experience bloating, acidity, constipation or no symptoms at all. Can you help me understand why the same food may affect us differently, and suggest simple ways to adapt one family meal for different needs without cooking separate dishes?\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sometimes the smartest family meal isn\u2019t one that treats everyone the same. It\u2019s one that gives everyone what they need.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"When_%E2%80%9Cdifferent_guts%E2%80%9D_isnt_the_whole_story\"><\/span><strong>When \u201cdifferent guts\u201d isn\u2019t the whole story<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Regular bloating, acidity, constipation or diarrhoea shouldn\u2019t simply be put down to having a \u201csensitive\u201d stomach. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.niddk.nih.gov\/health-information\/digestive-diseases\/indigestion-dyspepsia\/symptoms-causes\">Indigestion can have many causes<\/a>, including some medicines, infections and conditions such as ulcers.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">If symptoms continue, are severe, or keep coming back, it\u2019s worth speaking to a doctor. Sudden weight loss, blood in stool, severe or persistent pain, or difficulty swallowing need prompt medical attention.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">This is general information. For children, during pregnancy, or for older adults, follow a doctor\u2019s guidance before making changes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"The_Bottom_Line\"><\/span><strong>The Bottom Line<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">One kitchen can feed many people, but no two digestive systems are exactly alike. Portion, pace, age, activity, sleep, stress, medicines, intolerances and your own gut\u2019s sensitivity all influence how you respond to the same meal, and your gut bacteria may play a part too.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">So rather than searching for one \u201cperfect\u201d diet that works for everyone, build balanced family meals that are flexible enough to suit different appetites and lives. Good family cooking isn\u2019t about making different dinners for different people. It\u2019s about serving one thoughtful meal that everyone can make their own.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Sources\"><\/span><strong>Sources<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>NHS. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.nhs.uk\/conditions\/food-intolerance\/\">Food intolerance<\/a>.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>National Institute of Diabetes and Digestive and Kidney Diseases (NIH). <a href=\"https:\/\/www.niddk.nih.gov\/health-information\/digestive-diseases\/lactose-intolerance\/definition-facts\">Definition &amp; facts for lactose intolerance<\/a>.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>The Nutrition Source, Harvard T.H. Chan School of Public Health. <a href=\"https:\/\/nutritionsource.hsph.harvard.edu\/microbiome\/\">The microbiome<\/a>.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>NHS. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.nhs.uk\/conditions\/coeliac-disease\/diagnosis\/\">Coeliac disease: diagnosis<\/a>.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>National Institute of Diabetes and Digestive and Kidney Diseases (NIH). <a href=\"https:\/\/www.niddk.nih.gov\/health-information\/digestive-diseases\/indigestion-dyspepsia\/symptoms-causes\">Symptoms &amp; causes of indigestion<\/a>.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Disclaimer\"><\/span>Disclaimer<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">This article is for general information only and is not a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis or treatment. Always consult a doctor or a qualified healthcare professional about any health concerns, or before making changes to your diet, especially if you are pregnant, managing a medical condition, or making changes for a child or an older adult.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The same meal can affect people differently. 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